
34 years old · Founder of Noordkracht · Mentor, not a coach.
On paper, things were going well. Still, I was in a burnout, with a depression on top of it. I stopped seeing friends, stopped going outside, ate badly and drank too much. I put off anything that involved making plans. I didn't feel like looking honestly at myself. It was easier to pin it on something or someone else.
I no longer knew what I wanted from my life, and I couldn't even begin to think about it.
Everything in me said I wouldn't get out of this alone. But I didn't dare to be honest with friends and family. The first time I said it out loud was to a psychologist.
Since then I've known: you don't have to do this alone. It's normal to want connection, recognition, and men around you who understand you. I just say what's going on now, to other men too.
That's why I like to walk alongside men who aren't sure right now.
I'm a mentor, not a therapist. If a professional would suit you better, I'll say so honestly.
I work as a mentor. I ask questions and you find your own answers. You won't get a step-by-step plan from me.